My sister (32) had an AFFAIR on her family.Her husband found out and decided to go to the DISTRICT ATTORNEYS office and press charges (he had REAL PROOF) for DEPRAVED INDIFRENCE, SEXUAL BATTERY!If she gets convicted she could go to prison for the better part of 20 years. If she takes the PLEA BARGAIN she will get 2.5 years!Either way what ever she does she’s going to lose everything because according to the law in Ca. if a partner knowingly commits a crime the partner harmed by the other persons action loses everything!My sister has begged her husband to back off and just divorce and work on the marriage but he told her no he wants REVENGE, so I guess he’ll have it because my sister is looking to take a plea bargain.I understand where he’s coming from but is this really how marriage is expose to turn out?I understand many men &woman have been convicted of these crimes , do you think it’s Viable to still cheat if this is the consequence to cheating,CHEAT ,GO TO JAIL?The man she had affair with was in LATE 40’s not a minor!marriage is expose to turn out?” title=”Open Question: Is this how marriage is expose to turn out?” >Open Question: Is this how marriage is expose to turn out?

I feel that marriages don’t work today, because people who have NOTHING in common, seem to think that EVERYTHING will fall into place once they become legal. It used to be that you married someone down the block, childhood sweetheart, someone you grew up with. Now adays, people meet someone from another country on the net and they are on a plane tomorrow. And it is sooo easy to get a divorce these days! All you have to say anymore is I don’t love you anymore, I don’t think I ever did… Whatever happened to finding your soul mate? Remember when Irreconsilable Diffrences didn’t even make sense??For those of you who love being married right after a divorce… Did you find that you actually changed your way of thinking and married a ‘better’ choice this third or fourth time?…When I mention soul mate, I mean in the sense that you met someone you truly enjoy on a spiritual level. I know there is more than one person to love…marriage finally work out?” title=”Open Question: For those married more than Twice!! Did marriage finally work out?” >Open Question: For those married more than Twice!! Did marriage finally work out?

I was on H-4 Visa for 2 years via my ex-husband , now a U.S citizen,an abusive relationship ,he never submit my papers with him and after making shure that my visa is expired ,he send me divorce papers in the home country though I was here,I try to convert it to student visa before expiration but d/t financial problems couldn`t and I also tried to get asylum as I was very afraid by his family there ,I send the application to INS but b/c my signature was missing on one page of application they send it back to me,and I couldn`t persue it as I have to move to my aunt in another state,there she arrange for my second marriage .My present husband[also abusive] got his green card after one year of our marriage,he `ll submit his papers for citizenship after 8 months,it`s 4 1/2 yrs of marriage with two kids with him , I am out of status for 5 yrs and insisting me to wait untill he become citizen but I want to submit now as he has tell to many people about it,both ways it`s risk??please advice..Open Question: Is there any organization that can help me,my husband has green card, kids are citizens, I am out of status??

I could use a few positive answers too. This close to Christmas it would be nice to see there are some wonderful relationships going on out there! What makes your better than mine? Better be good, mine “rocks”!Open Question: Hows about a few positive questions in the “Marriage and Divorce” section. Is yours the best spouse around?

I have a wonderful boyfriend and we have been together for 5 months now. For the most part everything is good between us, except for one thing. He is currently going through a Divorce. He has been separated from his wife for 2 years and has one daughter of 9 years old which he sees regularly. His ex-wife continually makes it difficult for him to see his daughter and also makes comments about myself to the child. From what I can gather that I am the reason that Daddy left etc. Even though I did not know this man when they separated (she left him). Also as the child has been given so much attention for the past 4 years by both parents due to an unhappy marriage and with what has been told to her by her mother she is acting up. She is rude to me and at times just ignores me when I speak to her. I understand that she is a child and I am the adult but I am at a loss of how to deal with the situation. I hope someone can help. ThanksOpen Question: Being a Step Mother?

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